when's it considered "too soon" to confess feelings for someone

[bunnibelle]

this is a rlly random question but when is it considered "too soon" to confess feelings for someone ur talking to? i don't know if i shld get into the details but i just don't want to rush anything and can't figure out the timeline of it all and when i say talking i mean like someone ur friends with for around a few months or so, is there a standard procedure or just whenever it feels right? sorry again for this random question, i've just been debating this with myself for a while now and thought i might ask for advice/suggestions

 

[JACOB788833]

Girl we got u! So, start off by getting to know them, when you get to a point where the other person starts talking to you without u prompting them, and then just askkk

 

[bunnibelle]

Oh, alright thank u, i guess i'll try that

 

[bunnibelle]

fyi I can’t date it was simply a question. plus you’ve said some pretty out of pocket things

 

[bunnibelle]

when: every time u opened ur mouth
what: chaos
where: here
how: with great enthusiasm

also, wild how ur brain jumped from a question abt feelings to full on thirst-accusations not everything’s abt that buddy

 

[bunnibelle]

the classic “everyone else is shallow so it must be the truth” argument
just because some people tie feelings to thirst doesn’t mean we all do. some of us still believe in depth, not defaulting to assumptions.

 

[bunnibelle]

fair point, it might feel that way sometimes. but I still think real feelings and genuine love exist… it’s just a lot more rare nowadays

 

[bunnibelle]

yeah, it is. but I think the fact that people still talk about it means we haven’t totally lost it. idk, i just like to look on the positive side of things when i can, no use being pessimistic