For context, I met this girl around 2 years ago and to me they were the coolest person, they aren't the best influence for me as I did pick up smoking from them, however I am hopelessly in love with them even though they turned me down hard around a over year ago and at this point don't really want to find anybody else because I know I'm just trying to replace her, I'm still very good friends with her and hangout with her almost everyday, I'm still lying to myself that I've changed enough since then and a romantic relationship between us has never been mentioned since she turned me down
I (16M) still want to be in a romantic relationship with close friend who turned me down
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H8R
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The obvious solution is to move on; The girl is not willing to be with you, she stated so outright, judging by your recollection.
Moto_Lenara
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Well I'd say no, they might not be a good influence, but you can't really control your feelings. Whats your type? Perhaps you could find someone else and move on that way, not the best idea ever but it does work, even though you did say you don't want to find anyone else it seems like the best idea 
lmk how it goes
lmk how it goes