Not many users especially new ones understand the forums or know how to find the admins.
It is easier to ping them as well as to make it easier for the user to know who is an admin plus when an admin answers they'll know which one is taking this on.
At this point, you will need to share a proof of age to one of the admin of the chat you would do so by sending a private PM here in the forum Do not share it in the open forum. You can redact any personal information. We just need to see an age verification @Arkham@IDK-@0X0XRhea