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immoralbaddie

immoralbaddie

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I've been dating this guy on TC for a while; he loves me, I know he does, but sometimes I don't feel his love. We had an argument a few days ago because I broke up with him without any reason; that's what he thought. I actually broke up with him because I didn't think I deserved love. Long story short, we got back together on the condition that our relationship won't be the same as it was. I agreed to that. The problem is, I don't feel like his girlfriend. He doesn't really tell me things. I don't know if it's me; I feel when you're in a relationship or if you love someone and you have a problem, you'll find comfort in that person first or at least tell them what caused your pain or your mental breakdown. I told him I loved him a few days ago, and he replied with a thank you. He's not answering my texts, but he comes online on TC. Maybe I should give him time, but it's been two days, so I'm wondering, should I stay or leave?
 
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immoralbaddie said:
I've been dating this guy on TC for a while; he loves me, I know he does, but sometimes I don't feel his love. We had an argument a few days ago because I broke up with him without any reason; that's what he thought. I actually broke up with him because I didn't think I deserved love. Long story short, we got back together on the condition that our relationship won't be the same as it was. I agreed to that. The problem is, I don't feel like his girlfriend. He doesn't really tell me things. I don't know if it's me; I feel when you're in a relationship or if you love someone and you have a problem, you'll find comfort in that person first or at least tell them what caused your pain or your mental breakdown. I told him I loved him a few days ago, and he replied with a thank you. He's not answering my texts, but he comes online on TC. Maybe I should give him time, but it's been two days, so I'm wondering, should I stay or leave?
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It does sound like he may be a bit of a player (sorry to have to say that) but if he doesn't answer your texts, yet he comes on here to chat - thats rather insensitive and uncaring of him. Have you actually met this guy in real life?
 
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It's hard to get back to what it was after having that one "break" or break up. It will never go back to normal really.. It is very wrong and bit suspicious for what he's doing because it just initiates a lot of things eventually ending it for good. He will have to decide what he wants and so will you, if you're back together to try again and be stronger then do so. I'd say if it continues to be like that then it's safe to end your guy's relationship officially.

It's time he speaks to you and express what he thinks / feels. Staying silent will destroy it.
 
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Very true
Most of them barely know the essence of a relationship and date for either looks or bragging stuffs. I spend most of my time in either the flirt room or Stardust’s room, I am surprised to see they all date and then break up eventually, not gonna lie they don't give it some time to respect a previous relationship, they are ready to date the same day with an another person. LOL. On top of it, they put some suicidal stuffs on friends’ wall post after the breakup, then the next day they all are in clouds of nine, happily dating. It is like a pattern with most e-daters I have seen, so it is cringe to see them all doing this.

Few e-relationships really work and they are genuine. Cheating again depends person-to-person. Whether online or irl, cheaters are going to cheat, sadly. 💁
Trust is the most important in a relationship, once you lose it you are hardly going to trust anyone again in your life whether e dating or irl dating.
❗️Cheaters don’t cheat, speak it up when you want a breakup, morons❗️
Also be aware while you are dating someone online, they might be a cf or predator lurking, check it before sending them your pic or any personal information. 👀
TayTay_Gomez said:
Tbh I really don't understand the whole e-dating thingy. I feel like it's really hard to trust someone online and considering the fact that a fair amount of e-daters end up cheating or betraying the other person, I really wouldn't suggest anyone to pursue it.
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Very true
Most of them barely know the essence of a relationship and date for either looks or bragging stuffs. I spend most of my time in either the flirt room or Stardust’s room, I am surprised to see they all date and then break up eventually, not gonna lie they don't give it some time to respect a previous relationship, they are ready to date the same day with an another person. LOL. On top of it, they put some suicidal stuffs on friends’ wall post after the breakup, then the next day they all are in clouds of nine, happily dating. It is like a pattern with most e-daters I have seen, so it is cringe to see them all doing this.

Few e-relationships really work and they are genuine. Cheating again depends person-to-person. Whether online or irl, cheaters are going to cheat, sadly. 💁
Trust is the most important in a relationship, once you lose it you are hardly going to trust anyone again in your life whether e dating or irl dating.
❗️Cheaters don’t cheat, speak it up when you want a breakup, morons❗️
Also be aware while you are dating someone online, they might be a cf or predator lurking, check it before sending them your pic or any personal information. 👀
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Preach 🗣️ 🗣️
 
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